By Jamal Omar
MUHAMMAD'S EARLY JOB:
Muhammad (Peace be upon him), had no particular job at his early youth, but it was reported that he
worked as a shepherd for Bani Sa‘d and in Makkah. At the age of 25, he went to Syria as a merchant
for Khadijah (May Allah be pleased with her) Ibn Ishaq reported that Khadijah, daughter of Khwailid
was a business-woman of great honour and fortune. She used to employ men to do her business for a
certain percentage of the profits. Quraish people were mostly tradespeople, so when Khadijah was
informed of Muhammad (Peace be upon him), his truthful words, great honesty and kind manners, she
sent for him. She offered him money to go to Syria and do her business, and she would give him a
higher rate than the others. She would also send her hireling, Maisarah, with him. He agreed and went
with her servant to Syria for trade.
HIS MARRIEAGE TO KHADIJAH:
When he returned to Makkah, Khadijah noticed, in her money, more profits and blessings than she used
to. Her hireling also told her of Muhammad’s good manners, honesty, deep thought, sincerity and faith.
She realized that she homed at her target. Many prominent men had asked for her hand in marriage
but she always spurned their advances. She disclosed her wish to her friend Nafisa, daughter of Maniya,
who immediately went to Muhammad (Peace be upon him) and broke the good news to him. He agreed
and requested his uncles to go to Khadijah’s uncle and talk on this issue. Subsequently, they were
married. The marriage contract was witnessed by Bani Hashim and the heads of Mudar. This took place
after the Prophet’s return from Syria. He gave her twenty camels as dowry. She was, then, forty years
old and was considered as the best woman of her folk in lineage, fortune and wisdom. She was the first
woman whom the Messenger of Allâh (Peace be upon him) married. He did not get married to any other
until she had died.
Khadijah bore all his children, except Ibrahim: Al-Qasim, Zainab, Ruqaiyah, Umm Kulthum, Fatimah
and ‘Abdullah who was called Taiyib and Tahir. All his sons died in their childhood and all the daughters
except Fatimah died during his lifetime. Fatimah died six months after his death. All his daughters
witnessed Islam, embraced it, and emigrated to Madinah.
REBUILDING AL-KA'BAH AND THE ARBITRATION ISSUE:
When the Messenger of Allâh (Peace be upon him) was thirty five, Quraish started rebuilding Al-Ka‘bah.
That was because it was a low building of white stones no more than 6.30 metres high, from the days
of Ishmael. It was also roofless and that gave the thieves easy access to its treasures inside. It was
also exposed to the wearing factors of nature — because it was built a long time ago — that weakened
and cracked its walls. Five years before Prophethood, there was a great flood in Makkah that swept
towards Al-Ka‘bah and almost demolished it. Quraish was obliged to rebuild it to safeguard its holiness
and position. The chiefs of Quraish decided to use only licit money in rebuilding Al-Ka‘bah, so all money
that derived from harlotry, usury or unjust practices was excluded. They were, at first, too awed to
knock down the wall, but Al-Waleed bin Al-Mugheerah Al-Mukhzumi started the work. Seeing that no
harm had happened to him, the others participated in demolishing the walls until they reached the
basis laid by Abraham. When they started rebuilding its walls, they divided the work among the tribes.
Each tribe was responsible for rebuilding a part of it. The tribes collected stones and startwork. The
man who laid the stones was a Roman mason called Baqum. The work went on in harmony till the time came to put the sacred Black Stone in its proper place. Then strife broke out among the chiefs, and
lasted for four or five days, each contesting for the honour of placing the stone in its position. Daggers
were on the point of being drawn and great bloodshed seemed imminent. Luckily, the oldest among the
chiefs Abu Omaiyah bin Mugheerah Al-Makhzumi made a proposal which was accepted by all. He said:
“Let him, who enters the Sanctuary first of all, decide on the point.” It was then Allâh’s Will that the
Messenger of Allâh (Peace be upon him) should be the first to enter the Mosque. On seeing him, all the
people on the scene, cried with one voice: “Al-Ameen (the trustworthy) has come. We are content to
abide by his decision.” Calm and self-possessed, Muhammad (Peace be upon him) received the
commission and at once resolved upon an expedient which was to conciliate them all. He asked for a
mantle which he spread on the ground and placed the stone in its centre. He then asked the
representatives of the different clans among them, to lift the stone all together. When it had reached
the proper place, Muhammad (Peace be upon him) laid it in the proper position with his own hands.
This is how a very tense situation was eased and a grave danger averted by the wisdom of the Prophet
(Peace be upon him). Quraish ran short of the licit money, they collected, so they eliminated six yards area on the northern side of Al-Ka‘bah which is called Al-Hijr or Al-Hateem. They raised its door two metres from the level
ground to let in only the people whom they desired. When the structure was fifteen yards high they erected the roof which rested on six columns. When the building of Al-Ka‘bah had finished, it assumed a square form fifteen metres high. The side with the Black Stone and the one opposite were ten metres long each. The Black Stone was 1.50 metre from the circumambulation level ground. The two other sides were twelve metres long each. The door
was two metres high from the level ground. A building structure of 0.25 metre high and 0.30 metre
wide on the average surrounded Al-Ka‘bah. It was called Ash-Shadherwan, originally an integral part of
the Sacred Sanctuary, but Quraish left it out.
A RAPID REVIEW OF MUHAMMAD'S BIOGRAPHY BEFORE COMMISSIONING OF THE
PROPHETHOOD:
Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) was, in his youth, a combination of the best social attributes.
He was an exemplary man of weighty mind and faultless insight. He was favoured with intelligence,
originality of thought and accurate choice of the means leading to accurate goals. His long silence
helped favourably in his habit of meditation and deep investigation into the truth. His vivid mind and
pure nature were helpfully instrumental in assimilating and comprehending ways of life and people,
individual and community-wise. He shunned superstitious practices but took an active part in
constructive and useful dealings, otherwise, he would have recourse to his self-consecrated solitude. He
kept himself aloof from drinking wine, eating meat slaughtered on stone altars, or attending idolatrous
festivals. He held the idols in extreme aversion and most abhorrence. He could never tolerate someone
swearing by Al-Lat and Al-‘Uzza. Allâh’s providence, no doubts, detached him from all abominable or
evil practices. Even when he tried to obey his instinct to enjoy some life pleasures or follow some
irrespectable traditions, Allâh’s providence intervened to curb any lapse in this course. Ibn Al-Atheer
reported Muhammad (Peace be upon him) as saying: “I have never tried to do what my people do
except for two times. Every time Allâh intervened and checked me from doing so and I never did that
again. Once I told my fellow-shepherd to take care of my sheep when we were in the upper part of
Makkah. I wanted to go down to Makkah and entertain myself as the young men did. I went down to
the first house of Makkah where I heard music. I entered and asked: ‘What is this?’ Someone
answered: ‘It is a wedding party.’ I sat down and listened but soon went into deep sleep. I was
awakened by the heat of the sun. I went back to my fellow-shepherd and told him of what had
happened to me. I have never tried it again.” Al-Bukhari reported on the authority of Jabir bin ‘Abdullah that he said: “While the people were rebuilding Al-Ka‘bah, the Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) went with ‘Abbas to carry some stones. ‘Abbas said: ‘Put your loincloth round your neck to protect you from the stones.’ (As he did
that) the Prophet (Peace be upon him) fell to the ground and his eyes turned skyward. Later on he
woke up and shouted: ‘My loincloth... my loincloth.’ He wrapped himself in his loincloth.” In another
report: “His loins were never seen afterwards.” The authorities agree in ascribing to the youth of Muhammad (Peace be upon him) modesty of deportment, virtuous behaviour and graceful manners. He proved himself to be the ideal of manhood, and to possess a spotless character. He was the most obliging to his compatriots, the most honest in his talk and the mildest in temper. He was the most gentle-hearted, chaste, hospitable and always
impressed people by his piety-inspiring countenance. He was the most truthful and the best to keep
covenant. His fellow-citizens, by common consent, gave him the title of Al-‘Ameen (trustworthy). The
Mother of believers, Khadijah (May Allah be pleased with her) once said: He unites uterine relations, he
helps the poor and the needy, he entertains the guests and endures hardships in the path of
truthfulness.
Ar-Raheeq Al-Makhtum – The Sealed Nectar page 33-35
Biography of the Prophet Muhammad(SAW)